This site is a comprehensive directory or Resources for Troubled Teens and their families (See Abstracts Below). If you are looking for more information on troubled teens, whether you are a parent of a troubled teen, an educational consultant, or a professional who serves the needs of troubled teens, this site will be of great help. It is our goal to be the very best resource and directory on every subject regarding troubled teens, schools for troubled teens, troubled teen schools, programs for troubled teens, troubled teen programs, camps for troubled teens, troubled teen camps, help for troubled teens, and troubled teen help.
This web site is about the nation's troubled teens, troubled teens that are actively involved in antisocial behaviors that are causing havoc and discord, and are involved with the “justice” system to some degree. Our purpose is to provide some answers to typical questions from the parents of troubled teens, schools for troubled teens, troubled teen schools, programs for troubled teens, troubled teen programs, help for troubled teens, and troubled teen help. Throughout, there is an alphabetical list of Internet resources that may be helpful to people researching topics regarding troubled teens.
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ABSTRACT FOR ARTICLES ON TROUBLED TEENS
Troubled Teen - Help for Troubled and Defiant Teenages
Dishonesty, Disrespect, Bad Attitude, Grades Falling, Alcohol or Drug abuse, Depression, ADD or ADHD. Does one or more of these terms describe your teen? If your answer is yes, you probably worry about your teen's future, feel stressed out, and overwhelmed by the problems your troubled teen has. WE CAN HELP. We know how you feel, and we understand what you are going through. We have helped thousands of parents with their troubled teens. We specialize in programs and schools that deal with troubled youth and we are confident that we can help you no matter what your situation may be.
Typically, the troubled teen does not overcome his or her problems without some type of intervention from an outside source. We work with boarding schools, military schools, wilderness programs and boot camps. Among these, there is a program that can change the life of your teen, and we will help you find it. We help parents with their teens problems. Working with a troubled teen is our specialty.It's all well and good for me to sit here at the keyboard and tell you that you need to get your teens into counseling, but I'm really not that naive. I know how difficult that seemingly simple task can be. Provided you can even persuade the teen to get into the car to go to counseling, there's no way to force the child to speak to the counselor. What I can give you is an idea why your teen may not want counseling and a few ideas to try to use in convincing them to go.
Teens often balk at counseling for the same reasons that adults do. Chief among these is that they don't want to be blamed. They are afraid of how they will be viewed by this stranger. When talking to your teen about attending counseling try to ease this worry by reassuring him/her that the counselor is not judge and jury. The counselor's job is one of support not blame. They act as a totally unbiased partner helping people understand their feelings and why they feel the way they do. They are not generally bespeckled and bearded old German men with grave faces. Rather they are attentive, reassuring, and every bit as human as you and your teen.
Another reason teens, and adults, fear counseling is that they don't want to find out they are "crazy". Define your most imaginative view of "crazy" then look at yourselves in the mirror. Do you even remotely resemble your wildest vision of a nutcase? Be fair and brush your hair first. Have your teen do this or some such silly exercise to lighten their mood. Humor helps us relax and become receptive to new ideas. Reassure your teen that the counselor will not be viewing them as a frazzle haired, wild eyed monster either. In fact, if there is ONE person in the world who can convince you that you aren't a loony tune, it is a counselor who has seen 10 people just like you each day, 5 days a week for 5 years. A counselor is there not to tell you that you are crazy, but rather to help you understand that you are simply confused by your normalcy.
Just as there are some people we can't relate to, there will be some counselors that we cannot relate to. Don't expect a knock down drag out clash of personalities. When our personalities don't match well with the counselor we simply don't feel comfortable confiding in them. Feeling uncomfortable at the first session is normal. If this discomfort persists for several sessions, however, consider changing counselors until you find one that you do feel comfortable sharing with.
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